In Japanese, the word for attitude is shisei, which is made up of two kanji meaning shape and forces. In other words, it is the attitude that shapes the forces in our lives. Modern success coaches state the same thing when they explain that whatever you believe in, with conviction, will become your reality. This is the process where the karate-ka learns the proper attitude in dealing with conflict and begins to learn how to display tamashi or an indomitable spirit. In reality, it is this attitude that may be more important in victory on the battlefield than specific tactics or strategies.
At the foundation of proper attitude is the belief that you are guaranteed victory as long as you do not quit. The classic saying "nana korobi ya oki" or "fall seven times, get up eight," represents this indomitable spirit or winning attitude. As a student develops confidence through his martial arts training, he begins to demonstrate this winning attitude in a variety of ways, including speech, posture and deeds. The dojo is filled with the sounds of the karate kiai. The kanji for kiai translates as energy, join or in other words, "come meet my energy." The student learns how to overcome temporary discomforts on his path towards victory.
He understands that all worthwhile accomplishments come through hard work and perseverance, and a warrior is the epitome of those qualities. After all, if it was easy, everyone would do it, and then it would lose its value. Indeed the warrior attitude is priceless and cannot be bought. It is earned only through hard work and discipline.
The warrior attitude is priceless and cannot be bought
The senior karate-ka learns to predict the actions of others simply by observing the kamae or postures that they maintain. In combat, one never shows weakness, unless, of course, it is a ploy used to pull an unexpected opponent into an ambush. On a day-to-day basis, the modern streetwise warrior uses this same tactic of total confidence in every action. You notice it as they walk across the floor or talk to others. There is a sense of total confidence and security, hard to describe, but felt nonetheless. Add to that elegance in action or shibumi, and you begin to see the proper attitude of the modern warrior.
Most modern self-defense coaches understand that criminal acts are more prone to those that demonstrate a lack of confidence through their nonverbal communication, and therefore train their students that by working on their posture and walking with a sense of purpose, they can actually diminish the possibility they may be attacked in the first place. In some cultures, it is believed that if you learn proper posture, your confidence and attitude will improve. Some believe that if your self-confidence grows, your posture improves. Whichever school you come from, there is a direct correlation between attitude and posture.
The way you dress, move, talk and even think all define your attitude. I recently saw a report that several companies were doing away with their dress casual policies and were asking their employees to go back to suit and ties. It is amazing to see, during slow times, a getting back to basics and an understanding that posture has a direct impact on the bottom line in the business world. I can assure you it is equally important in your own personal world as well.
Like karate, attitude cannot be learned from a book or a video. You must find people that have this attitude and surround yourself with them. Attitude is very contagious, and if you hang around people with weak spirits, it will soon drag you down. On the other hand, if you surround yourself with people with warrior attitudes, you will share in the process of easier victories in goal attainment. You must be diligent in what you read, what you think, who you spend time with and what you do on a daily basis.
